Have you ever caught sight of yourself in a shop window and thought ‘Oh my God, I look terrible’?
A couple of people have mentioned this to me recently in relation to posture. They’ll be walking along, suddenly catch sight of their reflection in a shop window and be horrified at how stooped and hunched they look. It’s tempting to look away.
A shop window might not be the best place, but a mirror can be a good friend if you want to work with your postural habits. F.M. Alexander, the originator of the Alexander Technique, worked extensively with mirrors when he was developing his ideas. Most Alexander Technique teaching rooms have large mirrors in them.
We get feedback from our ‘internal’ senses of kinaesthesia and proprioception to tell us where the various parts of us are in space, but surprisingly those senses aren’t very reliable. We can think we are standing up straight when in fact we are hunched over. So when we suddenly see ourselves, it’s a surprise. Hence the shop window horrors.
In fact, our visual sense is a far better guide. So take a look at your self. I’d recommend a full-length mirror in a flattering light otherwise you’ll spend all your time looking at your hair or your tummy – or whatever body part you have it in for at the moment.
Ask yourself a few questions. Do you have your head tilted to one side? One shoulder higher than the other? Are you standing with all your weight on one leg, or in the balls of your feet? All these things are a great source of information that you can work with. In an Alexander Technique lesson you learn the specific points for you to look out for.
But don’t try it in a shop window. I’ve come to the conclusion that they are particularly unflattering reflective surfaces and best ignored. After all, you wouldn’t pay too much attention to your reflection in the back of a spoon would you? I’ve put shop windows in the same category.